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	<title>Confessions of a reluctant bride or:  how I learned how to stop worrying and love the bomb. &#187; favors</title>
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		<title>Confession:  we didn&#8217;t finish the CD on Sunday&#8230;but today we have a solid first draft.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So we didn&#8217;t finish the tracklist like I wanted Sunday&#8230;but we did register!  But that&#8217;s another post.
Instead, last night, I pinned the reluctant groom down and we hemmed, hawed, imported, split, and integrated tracks to create what we have as our perfect first go-round:
 
Who&#8217;s ready to WORK?
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Some notes:

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/playlist41.jpg"></a><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/playlist2.jpg"></a><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/0000007490_20060920143725.jpg"></a><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/playlist2.jpg"></a>So we didn&#8217;t finish the tracklist like I wanted Sunday&#8230;but we did register!  But that&#8217;s another post.</p>
<p>Instead, last night, I pinned the reluctant groom down and we hemmed, hawed, imported, split, and integrated tracks to create what we have as our perfect first go-round:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/0000007490_20060920143725.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-158" src="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/0000007490_20060920143725.jpg?w=231&#038;h=300" alt="" width="231" height="300" /></a> </p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Who&#8217;s ready to WORK?</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">(Image from <strong><a href="http://tv.yahoo.com/rainn-wilson/contributor/35219/photos/3">tv.yahoo.com</a></strong>)</p>
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<p>Some notes:</p>
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<li>I&#8217;m a little concerned that it gets a little slow at times&#8211;especially with the inclusion of the exquisite-but-melancholy &#8220;I Loves You Porgy&#8221;, hence adding in the two-minute interlude of &#8220;Soul Finger&#8221; to liven things up towards the end;</li>
<li>&#8220;Crane Wife 2&#8243; is technically a song&#8211;this was the track we split in order to save on length, as The Decemberists are notorious for always including at least one multi-song on each album.  While this is more appropriate, it&#8217;s also a little softer than had we included both;</li>
<li>SInce &#8220;Brompton Oratory&#8221; is a Nick Cave song, it&#8217;s filled with references to love and Jesus.  Very stark, rather obvious references to both, for that matter&#8211;and this is one of the more subtle songs in his catalog.  But the reluctant groom loves him some Nick Cave (he is a great songwriter)&#8211;do you think that folks may be turned off by such obvious references?</li>
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<p>We still have some space left, so if anyone out there has any suggestions that would help make this an awesome mix, they will be much appreciated.</p>
<p>Did you make a CD (or wanted to)?  How did you determine which songs would make the cut?</p>
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		<title>Confession:  I feel like time is slipping, slipping, slipping&#8230;into the future.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 16:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[April is rapidly coming to a close, and while I&#8217;ve made strides, I&#8217;m likely not doing nearly enough ahead of time.  So&#8230;despite it being a gorgeous day here in New Haven, I&#8217;m hankering down and as God as my witness, I&#8217;m going to finalize our CD-favor playlist and subsequently finish creating our CD cover.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/playlist.jpg"></a>April is rapidly coming to a close, and while I&#8217;ve made strides, I&#8217;m likely not doing nearly enough ahead of time.  So&#8230;despite it being a gorgeous day here in New Haven, I&#8217;m hankering down and as God as my witness, I&#8217;m going to finalize our CD-favor playlist and subsequently finish creating our CD cover.</p>
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<p>We&#8217;ve had something in mind for well over a year&#8211;we knew that our focus would be &#8220;what would be fun to listen to in the car?&#8221; instead of just rehashing songs that were played at the wedding.  So if I hear something I love (which, admittedly, happens quite often) and it could be a good fit, I&#8217;ve been adding to my &#8220;october road trip&#8221; playlist.  It&#8217;s far from complete, but here are the songs that we&#8217;ve thought of so far:</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-150 aligncenter" src="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/playlist.jpg?w=531&#038;h=185" alt="" width="531" height="185" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I apologize for the lousy quality&#8211;my computer is being difficult.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">There are a few songs on this list that are non-negotiables for various reasons:</p>
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<div style="text-align:left;">&#8220;Masterfade&#8221; by Andrew Bird&#8211;our wedding song!</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">&#8220;In the Aeroplane Over the Sea&#8221;&#8211;the runner up for our wedding song, but it just didn&#8217;t feel wedding-y enough to me.  Also, there are some who are expecting this and it&#8217;ll be fun to surprise them.</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">&#8220;Ceremony&#8221; by New Order&#8211;because I just love this song.  And it&#8217;s fun to drive to.</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">&#8220;Each Day Gets Better&#8221; by John Legend&#8211;because it&#8217;s peppy and has an amazing old-school Motown feel to it.</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">&#8220;Inside and Out&#8221; by Feist&#8211;because this is one of Michael&#8217;s favorite covers (it&#8217;s crazy-sexy) and because we&#8217;ll be playing the BeeGees version at the reception.</div>
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<p style="text-align:left;">The others can be excluded at whim.  So this I pose to you, dear readers:  what are YOUR favorite road trip songs?  What never fails to put a smile on your face?</p>
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		<title>Confession:  I totally started my DIY projects last summer&#8230;but I have yet to finish them.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 17:25:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>elizabeth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you checked out my inspiration board, you may have noticed that there is a big ol&#8217; honking book cover that&#8217;s prominently displayed:

Image from amazon.com.
This happens to be from the 60&#8217;s-era Scribner Library Classics series and is my primary influence when it comes to designing our favors and our programs.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/d27f729fd7a009999e39f010_l.jpg"></a><a href="http://bethy1810.wordpress.com/wp-admin/None"></a>If you checked out my inspiration board, you may have noticed that there is a big ol&#8217; honking book cover that&#8217;s prominently displayed:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/d27f729fd7a009999e39f010_l.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-85" src="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/d27f729fd7a009999e39f010_l.jpg?w=198&#038;h=300" alt="" width="198" height="300" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Image from <strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/BABYLON-REVISITED-Scribner-Contemporary-Classics/dp/0684717573">amazon.com</a></strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">This happens to be from the 60&#8217;s-era Scribner Library Classics series and is my primary influence when it comes to designing our favors and our programs.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">You see, I have a <em>thing</em> for vintage paperbacks due to their tendency to have strong, minimal graphics (but I also just happen to love old books in general).  I used to drag the RG to my favorite used bookstore in Paoli, PA armed with a $20 bill, and usually would come out a little sneezy (due to the mold and dust) and with a pile of books.  Sadly, the Paoli Book X-change has since closed (the last time I passed by it the building was completely gutted, to my horror), but it will live on in the spirit of the party as&#8230;</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">Our road-trip friendly wedding favor!</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://bethy1810.wordpress.com/wp-admin/None"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-87" src="http://bethy1810.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/cd-cover-2.jpg?w=480&#038;h=241" alt="" width="480" height="241" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The RG and I are pretty serious about making awesome CD mixes whenever we&#8217;re faced with a drive to and from Pennsylvania.  So when the topic of wedding favors came up, I immediately knew that we&#8217;d make a CD, and together we decided that a mix geared towards carrying on our party&#8217;s spirit in the car would be more guest-friendly (and more fun to make) than one full of sappy love songs like I&#8217;ve seen in the past.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">To be a bit romantic as well as a bit irreverent, we picked some of our favorite love-related quotes from unexpected places<em>&#8211;The Office, The Godfather</em>, <em>Ulysses</em>, and Okervil River&#8217;s album <em>Black Sheep</em> <em>Boy</em>.  Some are more serious than others, but they all reflect our very diverse taste in all things television, book, film, and music-related.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Now we have to just figure out the final playlist&#8230;which may prove to be tougher than deciding on a final guest list was.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"> What was/were the best favor(s) you received at a wedding?</p>
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